Why We think more Negatively than Positively?

Have you ever thought or given a chance to your mind to think why we think more negatively then positively, most of answers this with NO. Why because we are afraid of accepting the truth that "I have been grilled by seniors that if you ask for any change in life it will be disastorus".

Here you and I should actually interospect ourselves. Why? because its a fact that we both cannot say NO to, see everyone knows that when there are changes in any setting let it be life or profession or anything for that matter will create atleast few minutes to days what is known as "Change effect". Means due to change in routine matters some of your life or professional works will be hampered and then settels.

Most of us take this initial part of the changing process and think "thats the end of it", but we are not ready to accept that only chnages this life lively. If any thinging properly analysed each change in life or profession brought some good thing into this world (this is an unwritten law of nature - chnages should bring in good things. I can debate it anyone, I can show you positive aspect of any thing that has happened let it be even a natural disaster or man made disaster).

So that proves that " CHANGE IS A RULE" you accept it or not, if you do you live happily if not you think more of negative things. This is why we think more of negativity than positivity.

See you back here with more experience and success failure and plans.

Why we Fear to Fail?

I am asking you "why we fear to fail?"

You know the answer? yes or no, what ever it is - we fear to fail because we have been grilled by our parents , gaurdians or seniors that failure is the most shameful thing to heppen in our life. But actually it is not.

Don't think me as crazy, I am telling you by experience. This is a fact and you will be surprised to know that most successfull persons were almost thrown out by society as failures. Yes you show me one successfull person who built his or her life without an episode of failure, if you show me I agree that failure is not required to achive success.

Let me remind you while showing me the person who has achived success without failure don't show me how is supported by whole world to carry on the work and failure has been linked others and success is attached to that successfull human.

I am a professional and I know what is failure and also know how "the fear of failure kills YOU". I can show you practiclly happening everywhere on this earth, so lesson learnt is don't bother about self pride failure others comments and future instability, if you do you will lose todays stability.

I hope I made my point clear. If you need simple formula for crisis management then read this here. Good Luck see you with more valuable posts.

Crisis management Simple Formula!

Yes, I told it as "crisis management simple formula" , don't get surprised because most of the complicated things will have simple answers. Considering the complicated things crisis is considered to be one of the complicated things. So its more likely to have simple answer than the complicated one. SO why don't you try this any of the crisis you want to come out of it.

Here we go step by step-

1. Just think about the worst possible effect of your crisis
2. Now think about best possible out-come if you don't act
3. Based on no 1 and 2 you decide what you want out of the crisis
4. Now its time act - its just like reverse engineering any thing, you know what you want you just put energy required to complete it, so you have saved time, money, energy and best of all you the solution what you wnat out of the crisis.

I know the its easier said than done but thats the way it should be. Watch for some exciting posts which are coming up.

How to use youself for managing crisis?

How to keep youself motivated even in crisis? If you ask anyone who don't have any crisis at that moment will tell you best solution, even though they also know its easier said than done. Thats human nature, try to console one infront of them so that they feel good about doing some thing good ( but this may not be always true).

So then whom to ask for the answer?

Thats write best person to give solution your crisis is self Yes thats you the person matters the most. If you have doubt I would request you to try your self and then belive. Don't get me wrong here, every person has his or her own prefernces over others. So intentionally or unintentionally everyone of us have our own favorite - passtime, stress busters, games, musics, work (need not be what we do from 9 to 5) etc.

Do you think I am getting delinked from the main topic? No I am not. Give me some time to explain, just think of crisis (asume the one you had or you don't want that to happen) then just see what all options you had as solution for that crisis. If you have correctly analysed then sequence would be like -

- you thought of one solution but not immpressive
- Solution some one suggested but looks impressive

You gone ahead with others solution and mid way changed over to you own way of solving it (mostly after you thought you were confident enough to tackle the problem). Then you comeleted it. Am I correct? most problably yes.

Now dissect the above written process, you had lack of confidence yourself so opted for others solution but once you are in that solving groove you took your own way. That shows every one loves there own way of solution to all problems depending upon there level of ubderstanding the problem and ability to tackle it. Most of the time in crisis your favorite things comes handy (that why I mentioned abovefew of the favorites anyone have). They help you to keep you calm and relaxed enough to cope-up with crisis and solving the problem in shortest time possible.

So get your self ready for "crisis management simple formula" in next post, good luck bye.

Cushion effect of Money

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What a non sense topic! What is this use less tipic is all about - this may be your thought process at this moment, but this has happened to me so many times but the TRUTH never dies it comes back. It is a fact that money is an essential factor in life. Its main purpose for me is mainly cushion to so many events of life.

We will see few examples why I used the word "Cushion effect of Money".

If you understand the word cushion its nothing but type of padding to minimize the damage or trauma to part or article above it. So that means cushion is mainly there for prevention of damage. So think this way about life and money then you will understand why I call it as "Cushion effect of Money".

See in life you have an ambition, which can be achieved by spending time or money or both. If you have money it can act as an cushion of your "Time spent" or any loss that oocurs due to focusing on the ambition. So this cushion effect of money prevent you from agony and other problems you may undergo if you don't have money.

So money provides you cushion effect in - completing your dreams into fatcs, achiving goals more easly and fastly. If I continue the Cusion effect series then there is no end, SO try to understand "Cushion effect of Money" in your life and earn more for more cushion. Good Luck, some back for more interesting and time worth experience that I share.

Is money an essential part of life?

You may be thinking, what a nonsense question is there any doubt about money and its use? But I used this question because so many of us think that it is required but not everything, and fail to accept that money is an essential aspect of life.

I also know that its not everything but it amounts to many things rather than something, which I think we all should accept otherwise some circumstance will make you to accept it. Why I am telling accept it, because it changes your mind set towards money and make money an daily requirement and inspires you to earn more for what ever you have.

After thinking and telling all these we would be better if coutious about money taking over our mind. What nonsense money taking over mind??.......... Yes money taking over mind is a factor which we all should be cautious about, reason is when you are on high of money making you should not forget the "humanity" so that in future you should not feel guilty for what you have done.

I would like write about some thing called "Cushion effect of Money" which I will try to cover in my next post. Thanks for reading

How I learnt what is right and what is wrong?

I learnt very hard way what is correct and what is worng it took me more than six months but I don't think that I stopped learning. I am of a firm beliver that when you think you have learnt every thing then thats "THE END" of your story. So if you want to be alive continue learning so that you will live that life you want.

First when I started every thing was looking same to me some opportunities to earn money were better than the other in sales letter. You know I was not even knowing what is NEWS LETTER or what is optin email etc etc. But that slowly changed over time when I started leraning one by one.

I should be thank full to one of the news letter which led me to some thing known as "pips" site through which I was introduced to an excellent marketing forum known as www.warriorforum.com which changed the way I used to think about many factors of money making online. Then I started slowly to change my mind set for the "MONEY FACTOR" which I learnt late how it changes your way of thinking about life.

I don't want to waste too much of anyones time some this was how I started to learn and continuing to do the same. Every one should remember that leraning is a continuos process don't stop it. Good Luck, you can expect more experience from my life in coming posts.

My First Failure on Net

Yes I should agree to my first failure on net because without accepting my first failure I may not be comfortable in speaking truth about my self especially when some one don't know me personally. So I accept my first failure on this wonderfull net.

I became an victim of chain letter and lost Rs 100 (equivalent to approx $2.5) but I never regret for the same because that my own decision to test. That means in other words I was ready for the test and I was mentally prepared for the loss. That time I remembered one of the beauty full saying "failure is step to success".

If you don't belive that then its your view that I honor, but thats the fact. Today I can see any ad or sales page on net and decide what suits me and what not. So that what I say "step to success".

So I will continue my online journey story in coming posts till then see you , bye

I started in june 2004

I started my Journey on Internet from june 2004 onwards. I don't remeber the day I started. I was thrilled by the fact that my duaghter who born on 15th may 2004 was doing well after an initial period of respiratory distress after birth.

But there was a change in life or thinking process was waiting!!

I was surprised by that thought, because till that day I was thinking of only moral factors of life and nourished them. They kept me going in my life's roughest patches but there was something which was lacking that is what I call "cushion effect of money". I will cover this aspect when I feel its right time to touch it.

So my daughter's birth made the change

I decided to go ahead in an ethical manner for earning money more faster than what I am. So what to do? Very big question to a person who was not knowing how to email properly till 2003 (surprised!!!!, don't be there still people who have this problem). I was told internet is the most powerfull information provider ever created by mankind which is still in its infancy.

But surprisingly, initial phase of the research for money making by me was totally confusing and full of doubts, but manythings where belivable and others were not. but I decided to play it safe with in my limits.

I trial I lost!!!!

I will wirte more on my first loss in next post see you till then

I told Ten Blogs but

I told Ten Blogs but I thought I will clarify before it creates confusion. I had more than ten blogs on blogger but now i have only one and planning to continue with only one so that I will be more focused and more productive.

I need to express what I am going to blog here

I blog, my childhood to present day activities in a piece and piece method, whichare independent by themselves so that person reading the post which is he or she is interested need not go to read the entire blog.

"God will help those who help themselves" thats what wise man told to an other wise man.

But I belive GOD helps everyone but only people who put efforts will see results.

Good Luck
Sreenivasa Iyengar

I had more than Ten blogs but now only one

Hi

I am starting this blog after deleting all my old blogs because I felt rather than maintaining tens and hundreds of blog with less value its better to maintain the blog which has value for me as well as to others.

In coming days i am going to spill out my experience success and failures atleast one by one, so that the people who are in need will be benefited.

I had some good intentions and some bad one initially but now the good ones have taken over the bad so I am happy that I am with positive energy to make a differnece to others and the lovely world.

Thanks for reading

Sreenivasa Iyengar