Do you have a craving, ... for anything? If you don't have one then I doubt that you have any wishes in your life. If someone doesn’t have craving means she/ he doesn't have a strong desire for the life.
Have you ever thought about this?
Ok if not first let me get it clear for you. See desire is one thing that drives human from inside for any work. But when this desire start working on human involuntarily then it takes the name craving, in other words desire's extreme positive aspect is craving. So anyone having a craving means that he or she is having strong desire for the same.
So this desire or craving can be enemy or friend of human mankind depending up on the desire anyone is having. Example an desire for money can be disastrous at the same time it can be most innovative moment of someone’s life depending on the type of work he or she choose to make money.
That means it can act both ways, depending upon the mode of action or type of action mankind will be affected. Some wise person told, " Desire is the root cause of sorrow", but if you don't have desire then what is your motivational factor? So have good desires or craving and achieve much more than what you think is possible in your lifetime.
You many be worried about bad cravings creeping into you, let me show you how to stop them easily in my next post till then see you bye.
Monday, May 7, 2007
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
Simple formula to make life happier and vibrant
Can you give me exactly five minutes for reading this, I can show you the simple formula for happier life in less than that five minutes. Yes it takes less than five minutes to understand the simple formula for happier life but implementation of the same may take many more minutes to years depending on YOU.
Life becomes sorrowful or stressful depending what we do or what we think. But same things came give better results or outputs if you are prepared for it. Everyone knows that everyone cannot be prepared for every thing in ones life time, but every one is worried about the outcome of every thing hey come across.
So simple formula for happier life goes this way.
Step one
Stop thinking about the things where you cannot do anything - like rain, sunrise, temp outside your home or office etc or for that matter somebody else's action
Step two
Plan for long term and act for short term - Means plan for few years not for life and act for short terms means days not minutes. Do all your work this way
Step Three
Prepare for the worst outcome and get ready for best outcome. Meaning prepare an alternate plan if your action brings in a worst thing and plan for celebration if you get max out of your action.
Step four
When compromise on your family or personal life for others work until it is life saving or world saving action
Step Five
Never give away every thing to others in anticipation - it is applicable to every aspect of life, let it be money secrets, property, knowledge
Step Six
Prepare for Securing all you have in unfortunate departure - including you dear ones life, your money, your knowledge etc
I am going reveal one of the best and worst friend of mankind in my next post just guess if you can. It will be a surprise
Life becomes sorrowful or stressful depending what we do or what we think. But same things came give better results or outputs if you are prepared for it. Everyone knows that everyone cannot be prepared for every thing in ones life time, but every one is worried about the outcome of every thing hey come across.
So simple formula for happier life goes this way.
Step one
Stop thinking about the things where you cannot do anything - like rain, sunrise, temp outside your home or office etc or for that matter somebody else's action
Step two
Plan for long term and act for short term - Means plan for few years not for life and act for short terms means days not minutes. Do all your work this way
Step Three
Prepare for the worst outcome and get ready for best outcome. Meaning prepare an alternate plan if your action brings in a worst thing and plan for celebration if you get max out of your action.
Step four
When compromise on your family or personal life for others work until it is life saving or world saving action
Step Five
Never give away every thing to others in anticipation - it is applicable to every aspect of life, let it be money secrets, property, knowledge
Step Six
Prepare for Securing all you have in unfortunate departure - including you dear ones life, your money, your knowledge etc
I am going reveal one of the best and worst friend of mankind in my next post just guess if you can. It will be a surprise
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Why your life is so dull?
Life is dull, life is boring, monotonous life is so boring and so on is the usual cribbing of many in life. But ultimately one thing remains unanswered there are so many people on this earth who feel is life evergreen and vibrant and goes on and on. They even enjoy their life to max and they are never bothered about the disgusting thinking of dull life. Why this dichotomy in life? Have you ever thought about this? If not think today and think about this to change the way you live your life.
I have undergone these many a times but I discovered that only one thing that changes the life is "YOU" yes that is you nobody else.
You may be thinking what is this, how can this be possible and many more things you think as possibilities. But fact remains same it is YOU who matters no body else. Because its your life and only you can think about your self from your angle everyone else think about you in their angle rather than from yours so its you who matters not anyone else, not even your wife or parents or kids.
Don't ask me that "it means wife/ husband, parents, kids are of no consequence". Who told that they are of no consequence in your life, they are all having their own limits and so they have limited effect on you. You life depends on how "YOU" take them rather than what they have done to YOU.
So if you want life to be vibrant, joyful, lively then change your mind set and see difference in your life. Wait for me in next post, I will show you how simple it is to change the mind set and become happier than what you are.
I have undergone these many a times but I discovered that only one thing that changes the life is "YOU" yes that is you nobody else.
You may be thinking what is this, how can this be possible and many more things you think as possibilities. But fact remains same it is YOU who matters no body else. Because its your life and only you can think about your self from your angle everyone else think about you in their angle rather than from yours so its you who matters not anyone else, not even your wife or parents or kids.
Don't ask me that "it means wife/ husband, parents, kids are of no consequence". Who told that they are of no consequence in your life, they are all having their own limits and so they have limited effect on you. You life depends on how "YOU" take them rather than what they have done to YOU.
So if you want life to be vibrant, joyful, lively then change your mind set and see difference in your life. Wait for me in next post, I will show you how simple it is to change the mind set and become happier than what you are.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
How to maximize time and energy by redefining friendship?
Yes last time I spoke about the friendship in a negative aspect, but this time I am talking to you in an positive aspect of the same topic. You may be one of them who have lot of friends and using your time to keep up your friendship intact by doing one or the other thing for them. But have you ever thought how much time you are using to keep up your friendship? Do you thing the amount of time and energy (I an not even talking about money) spent on this is worth or you don't know?
Then see here how you can maximize the things and save much more time and energy.
You have to first take a notepad and pen/ pencil of noting purpose. List your friends in your first column. Next column make a point to list number of hours you use for the friends against each name of first column. Third column list the important events you missed for friend or not committing your time family at the same time. Now the important column, list out the friendship motto you have with the friend you spend time.
Just four columns to analyze but you make a fifth column for action. What is this action? This is the most important aspect of this whole exercise. Once you have written the list of friends and the time spent against each and loss or potential loss you had due the same, you have to decide first the loss and spent time are worth what it is or a loss.
Once you decide that has been a loss then this is time for redefining your friendship. How to redefine friendship? Its easy and at the same time difficult. Say you have a so called friend at office and you think that he or she is essential for you work to go smoothly, so made a friendship and spending time. But now you decide whether is the person who is the cause for the loss really worth the time you have spent. Because most of the times you work is specified and limited by law and rules of any organization, but we think that we have been burdened so takes others help and then we think they are essential for our work. In other words first redefine your work and cut the helps you require and make a trial to work independently. If you succeed to do it then you don't require help so it becomes easy to you redefine the friendship and more fruitful days are spent with the friends worth your time, most important friends will be your family members. Think about this and take action and enjoy more time with your true friends.
See you soon with more experience and helpful tips.
Then see here how you can maximize the things and save much more time and energy.
You have to first take a notepad and pen/ pencil of noting purpose. List your friends in your first column. Next column make a point to list number of hours you use for the friends against each name of first column. Third column list the important events you missed for friend or not committing your time family at the same time. Now the important column, list out the friendship motto you have with the friend you spend time.
Just four columns to analyze but you make a fifth column for action. What is this action? This is the most important aspect of this whole exercise. Once you have written the list of friends and the time spent against each and loss or potential loss you had due the same, you have to decide first the loss and spent time are worth what it is or a loss.
Once you decide that has been a loss then this is time for redefining your friendship. How to redefine friendship? Its easy and at the same time difficult. Say you have a so called friend at office and you think that he or she is essential for you work to go smoothly, so made a friendship and spending time. But now you decide whether is the person who is the cause for the loss really worth the time you have spent. Because most of the times you work is specified and limited by law and rules of any organization, but we think that we have been burdened so takes others help and then we think they are essential for our work. In other words first redefine your work and cut the helps you require and make a trial to work independently. If you succeed to do it then you don't require help so it becomes easy to you redefine the friendship and more fruitful days are spent with the friends worth your time, most important friends will be your family members. Think about this and take action and enjoy more time with your true friends.
See you soon with more experience and helpful tips.
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
Why do we want to make friends?
Why do we want to make friends?
"What idiotic question", if we think so then we are fools, why you know? Because we don't know actually why we are making friendship. This is an absolute truth which most of us deny. If you analyze the friendships you are having then it looks totally different than what you are managing it as.
I can prove this to you repeatedly, in your life.
Don't think that I am speaking about some rubbish topic here; this is one of the most important aspect of life. This can save lot of energy and time for you if you can apply it from today. To start with I would like to tell you how we are not making correct friends, because we don't know why we are making friends.
See a boy making a friendship with a girl who is his neighbor or classmate has a basic motto that is she is near to him so interaction is almost daily basis so likes keeping the communication free so that while expressing he can express freely. But this may not be 100% true. This as a boy or as a girl you might have experienced. Here I am not telling that every have a friendship going have a second motto which is unwarranted, but fact is this friendship with subconscious motto going to cost you time and energy more that what is required until unless you consciously kill the subconscious motto of friendship.
If some body is telling that they think friendship is all about accepting "a friend as he or she is" rather than asking for modification, then I call it as bullshit as that will be an ideal situation which you can see hardly on this mother earth.
Wait for my next post where I would like to tell you how to maximize time and energy by redefining the friendship. Till then good-bye.
"What idiotic question", if we think so then we are fools, why you know? Because we don't know actually why we are making friendship. This is an absolute truth which most of us deny. If you analyze the friendships you are having then it looks totally different than what you are managing it as.
I can prove this to you repeatedly, in your life.
Don't think that I am speaking about some rubbish topic here; this is one of the most important aspect of life. This can save lot of energy and time for you if you can apply it from today. To start with I would like to tell you how we are not making correct friends, because we don't know why we are making friends.
See a boy making a friendship with a girl who is his neighbor or classmate has a basic motto that is she is near to him so interaction is almost daily basis so likes keeping the communication free so that while expressing he can express freely. But this may not be 100% true. This as a boy or as a girl you might have experienced. Here I am not telling that every have a friendship going have a second motto which is unwarranted, but fact is this friendship with subconscious motto going to cost you time and energy more that what is required until unless you consciously kill the subconscious motto of friendship.
If some body is telling that they think friendship is all about accepting "a friend as he or she is" rather than asking for modification, then I call it as bullshit as that will be an ideal situation which you can see hardly on this mother earth.
Wait for my next post where I would like to tell you how to maximize time and energy by redefining the friendship. Till then good-bye.
Saturday, April 7, 2007
Why your Boss is under more stress than YOU?
Have you ever thought, why your boss is under more stress than you? Asnwer may be clear to most of us who works for some one.
We think the work given to us is only for completing the task, but boss thinks that you have been given task to complete it and the same has to be used by him for presentation in front of others to whom he is answerable.
Now just disect the 2nd para.
See you worked, you understand the work, you understand the importance, you can start in between also. But the same cannot be done by your boss, means he cannot master because he was not involved in the work done, he need to study more than you to deliver at the level you deliver. Means to present a project o work done by you is difficult for other to present than its for you.
In other words it means that senior of your boss if he or she doen't get themselves involved in work told you, then they will have bad time on filed with this work. So will be under more stress.
Moral of the story is - Get involved in the work and get less stress. Its applicable to all, as senior you will have junior today or tommorow. So don't allow the stress to kill you get involved and get rid of stress. Good Luck
We think the work given to us is only for completing the task, but boss thinks that you have been given task to complete it and the same has to be used by him for presentation in front of others to whom he is answerable.
Now just disect the 2nd para.
See you worked, you understand the work, you understand the importance, you can start in between also. But the same cannot be done by your boss, means he cannot master because he was not involved in the work done, he need to study more than you to deliver at the level you deliver. Means to present a project o work done by you is difficult for other to present than its for you.
In other words it means that senior of your boss if he or she doen't get themselves involved in work told you, then they will have bad time on filed with this work. So will be under more stress.
Moral of the story is - Get involved in the work and get less stress. Its applicable to all, as senior you will have junior today or tommorow. So don't allow the stress to kill you get involved and get rid of stress. Good Luck
Wednesday, April 4, 2007
How to maximise happiness by killing gender Bias?
Why a Lady cannotbe = Gentleman? I asked this question to many and recived varied answers. But when I compare my views 15 years back and today its a total contrast, even though I remained on the happier side throughout. My experience 15 years back was different compared to today. I am affraid that this post may go very long (I will try to sat as cripsy as possible).
Lady cannotbe = Gentleman
just see how the words are written, I could have written it as lady = gentleman, true or false. But I have not written the statement with a ? to ignite the self within you. You may be lady or gentleman but will have your own opinion for this question, but my intention is to say what I felt rather then creating a contraversy.
Here we go "how to maximize happiness by Killing gender bias"
So many time a male think he is superior to female by mere fact that he has more musculature because of testosterone hormone. Each and every gov tries to prove both are equal,but fails at grassroot level because of the teachings a child recieve from his or her elders , teachers, seniors and off course the great society. Who ever may claim anything there is still a stigma of gender bias left over in most of the societies., it may be varing in the level of bias.
Why be do so?
May be because we are seeing ans learning things which are shown to us and then try to analyse the situation on what we learn rather than aneutral analysing system. Don't ask me here that "means all decisions are biased due to what we learnt in past". In one way thats the fact, so if with the thngs learnt in past acts an catalyst to your thinking force to move you towards the neutral position of gender bias then you can think you learnt and learning tha correct things.
I will bore you, just imagine you have 3 collegues how are ladies in a working station where ten people work. You are a male, so effectively (if you remain neutral) you have 6 on male side and three on female side. If you are able to reciprocate to male as a friend without love and lust then you have 66% on your side, and if you behave same with ladies then you have 99 to 100% on your side, which is very unlikely. So be neutral in treating people as far as gender is considered, then you will hardly have any blocks or rough surface in working station and that gives to so much time to operate or work at working station you will hardly require extra time to finish your job. Once you finished your job then you ahve got good amount of time to spend with family and friends.
If you follow the zero gender bias even at home and public places you will be leveraging many things that make you happier and more productive than ever. Think about it before doing gender bias again.
Thanks for reading, I know it may not be very clear what I expressed here but if you use your common sense to analyse the fact with neutral mind you will understand what I meant.
Lady cannotbe = Gentleman
just see how the words are written, I could have written it as lady = gentleman, true or false. But I have not written the statement with a ? to ignite the self within you. You may be lady or gentleman but will have your own opinion for this question, but my intention is to say what I felt rather then creating a contraversy.
Here we go "how to maximize happiness by Killing gender bias"
So many time a male think he is superior to female by mere fact that he has more musculature because of testosterone hormone. Each and every gov tries to prove both are equal,but fails at grassroot level because of the teachings a child recieve from his or her elders , teachers, seniors and off course the great society. Who ever may claim anything there is still a stigma of gender bias left over in most of the societies., it may be varing in the level of bias.
Why be do so?
May be because we are seeing ans learning things which are shown to us and then try to analyse the situation on what we learn rather than aneutral analysing system. Don't ask me here that "means all decisions are biased due to what we learnt in past". In one way thats the fact, so if with the thngs learnt in past acts an catalyst to your thinking force to move you towards the neutral position of gender bias then you can think you learnt and learning tha correct things.
I will bore you, just imagine you have 3 collegues how are ladies in a working station where ten people work. You are a male, so effectively (if you remain neutral) you have 6 on male side and three on female side. If you are able to reciprocate to male as a friend without love and lust then you have 66% on your side, and if you behave same with ladies then you have 99 to 100% on your side, which is very unlikely. So be neutral in treating people as far as gender is considered, then you will hardly have any blocks or rough surface in working station and that gives to so much time to operate or work at working station you will hardly require extra time to finish your job. Once you finished your job then you ahve got good amount of time to spend with family and friends.
If you follow the zero gender bias even at home and public places you will be leveraging many things that make you happier and more productive than ever. Think about it before doing gender bias again.
Thanks for reading, I know it may not be very clear what I expressed here but if you use your common sense to analyse the fact with neutral mind you will understand what I meant.
Monday, April 2, 2007
Short Cut to success
Hi
Today its my second post on my blog. Reason being I am free for posting today. I would like to share one important post on one of my favorite blogs. In the post author wrote it as "30 day to success", on his blog.
This is one of the good posts I have ever read. Why you know? because when ever you want to inculcate a new habbit for good then just follow the steps mentioned in that post then you will understand the importance.
You may after reading the post feel, there are so many things that not for your society or culture - how to go about it? easiest way is use yourself and make a notes first.
How to make notes ?
Take a notepad (paper or virtual)
marker
make two columns
first column write what ever told on the blog link I have given above
secondcolumn know use your experience and select the best alternate
So start acting as per second column
You done it
Good Luck
Today its my second post on my blog. Reason being I am free for posting today. I would like to share one important post on one of my favorite blogs. In the post author wrote it as "30 day to success", on his blog.
This is one of the good posts I have ever read. Why you know? because when ever you want to inculcate a new habbit for good then just follow the steps mentioned in that post then you will understand the importance.
You may after reading the post feel, there are so many things that not for your society or culture - how to go about it? easiest way is use yourself and make a notes first.
How to make notes ?
Take a notepad (paper or virtual)
marker
make two columns
first column write what ever told on the blog link I have given above
secondcolumn know use your experience and select the best alternate
So start acting as per second column
You done it
Good Luck
Why do we affraid to dream big?
Other I was telling about "why we fear to fail?" on this blog, today I want to tell about "why we fear to dream big?", it may not be a big issue at all for most of us. You know why, we never felt dreaming big is an issue of importance. We fail to dream high and big, because we don't want to spoil our routine activites.
Just think an example today you are eraning a salary of 20000 bucks, but you want 30000 bucks per month. To achieve it atleast once you should dream what is all about then only you will be able take on the task to increase your salary.
When you don't dream you will not have any motivation and once you don't have motivation you will not be able to carryout your plans in the most crisis full situation. So complete your requirement / dream you need motivation, work ethic and carrying on dreams even in toughest times. So untill you dream big you will never be able to carry on & on. If you need to improve your life first dream it and then plan and execution of the plan.
I hope now you will be able to dream easily and complete it. Good Luck
Just think an example today you are eraning a salary of 20000 bucks, but you want 30000 bucks per month. To achieve it atleast once you should dream what is all about then only you will be able take on the task to increase your salary.
When you don't dream you will not have any motivation and once you don't have motivation you will not be able to carryout your plans in the most crisis full situation. So complete your requirement / dream you need motivation, work ethic and carrying on dreams even in toughest times. So untill you dream big you will never be able to carry on & on. If you need to improve your life first dream it and then plan and execution of the plan.
I hope now you will be able to dream easily and complete it. Good Luck
Sunday, April 1, 2007
April Fool's Day - How it can help you live better
First let me tell you if you need details about this then go here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools'_Day . As my intention is not to reinvent the wheel I have shown you the reliable site to learn in detail about april fool's day.
Why I am choosing this topic today?
Just think how it works, you can make fool out anyone today but you still prefer to limit yourself to one you know or one you love. Why its so?
See you have things behind it one it may hurt the person who is getting fooled or it may hit the wrong corner and you may have to face music. There may be many but because this two main reason we limit ourselves to our dear ones.
Means you are comfortable with the one you fooled - make point this person can be of help for you in your crisis. Second point if you are foolinf some one means you are ready to get fooled, in other words you are filled with sportive nature. SO you can take on many insults without any problems or with simple support.
Go and fool some one today and find your reliable friend today & develop sportive spirit to live happily. Good Luck
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools'_Day . As my intention is not to reinvent the wheel I have shown you the reliable site to learn in detail about april fool's day.
Why I am choosing this topic today?
Just think how it works, you can make fool out anyone today but you still prefer to limit yourself to one you know or one you love. Why its so?
See you have things behind it one it may hurt the person who is getting fooled or it may hit the wrong corner and you may have to face music. There may be many but because this two main reason we limit ourselves to our dear ones.
Means you are comfortable with the one you fooled - make point this person can be of help for you in your crisis. Second point if you are foolinf some one means you are ready to get fooled, in other words you are filled with sportive nature. SO you can take on many insults without any problems or with simple support.
Go and fool some one today and find your reliable friend today & develop sportive spirit to live happily. Good Luck
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Why We think more Negatively than Positively?
Have you ever thought or given a chance to your mind to think why we think more negatively then positively, most of answers this with NO. Why because we are afraid of accepting the truth that "I have been grilled by seniors that if you ask for any change in life it will be disastorus".
Here you and I should actually interospect ourselves. Why? because its a fact that we both cannot say NO to, see everyone knows that when there are changes in any setting let it be life or profession or anything for that matter will create atleast few minutes to days what is known as "Change effect". Means due to change in routine matters some of your life or professional works will be hampered and then settels.
Most of us take this initial part of the changing process and think "thats the end of it", but we are not ready to accept that only chnages this life lively. If any thinging properly analysed each change in life or profession brought some good thing into this world (this is an unwritten law of nature - chnages should bring in good things. I can debate it anyone, I can show you positive aspect of any thing that has happened let it be even a natural disaster or man made disaster).
So that proves that " CHANGE IS A RULE" you accept it or not, if you do you live happily if not you think more of negative things. This is why we think more of negativity than positivity.
See you back here with more experience and success failure and plans.
Here you and I should actually interospect ourselves. Why? because its a fact that we both cannot say NO to, see everyone knows that when there are changes in any setting let it be life or profession or anything for that matter will create atleast few minutes to days what is known as "Change effect". Means due to change in routine matters some of your life or professional works will be hampered and then settels.
Most of us take this initial part of the changing process and think "thats the end of it", but we are not ready to accept that only chnages this life lively. If any thinging properly analysed each change in life or profession brought some good thing into this world (this is an unwritten law of nature - chnages should bring in good things. I can debate it anyone, I can show you positive aspect of any thing that has happened let it be even a natural disaster or man made disaster).
So that proves that " CHANGE IS A RULE" you accept it or not, if you do you live happily if not you think more of negative things. This is why we think more of negativity than positivity.
See you back here with more experience and success failure and plans.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Why we Fear to Fail?
I am asking you "why we fear to fail?"
You know the answer? yes or no, what ever it is - we fear to fail because we have been grilled by our parents , gaurdians or seniors that failure is the most shameful thing to heppen in our life. But actually it is not.
Don't think me as crazy, I am telling you by experience. This is a fact and you will be surprised to know that most successfull persons were almost thrown out by society as failures. Yes you show me one successfull person who built his or her life without an episode of failure, if you show me I agree that failure is not required to achive success.
Let me remind you while showing me the person who has achived success without failure don't show me how is supported by whole world to carry on the work and failure has been linked others and success is attached to that successfull human.
I am a professional and I know what is failure and also know how "the fear of failure kills YOU". I can show you practiclly happening everywhere on this earth, so lesson learnt is don't bother about self pride failure others comments and future instability, if you do you will lose todays stability.
I hope I made my point clear. If you need simple formula for crisis management then read this here. Good Luck see you with more valuable posts.
You know the answer? yes or no, what ever it is - we fear to fail because we have been grilled by our parents , gaurdians or seniors that failure is the most shameful thing to heppen in our life. But actually it is not.
Don't think me as crazy, I am telling you by experience. This is a fact and you will be surprised to know that most successfull persons were almost thrown out by society as failures. Yes you show me one successfull person who built his or her life without an episode of failure, if you show me I agree that failure is not required to achive success.
Let me remind you while showing me the person who has achived success without failure don't show me how is supported by whole world to carry on the work and failure has been linked others and success is attached to that successfull human.
I am a professional and I know what is failure and also know how "the fear of failure kills YOU". I can show you practiclly happening everywhere on this earth, so lesson learnt is don't bother about self pride failure others comments and future instability, if you do you will lose todays stability.
I hope I made my point clear. If you need simple formula for crisis management then read this here. Good Luck see you with more valuable posts.
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Crisis management Simple Formula!
Yes, I told it as "crisis management simple formula" , don't get surprised because most of the complicated things will have simple answers. Considering the complicated things crisis is considered to be one of the complicated things. So its more likely to have simple answer than the complicated one. SO why don't you try this any of the crisis you want to come out of it.
Here we go step by step-
1. Just think about the worst possible effect of your crisis
2. Now think about best possible out-come if you don't act
3. Based on no 1 and 2 you decide what you want out of the crisis
4. Now its time act - its just like reverse engineering any thing, you know what you want you just put energy required to complete it, so you have saved time, money, energy and best of all you the solution what you wnat out of the crisis.
I know the its easier said than done but thats the way it should be. Watch for some exciting posts which are coming up.
Here we go step by step-
1. Just think about the worst possible effect of your crisis
2. Now think about best possible out-come if you don't act
3. Based on no 1 and 2 you decide what you want out of the crisis
4. Now its time act - its just like reverse engineering any thing, you know what you want you just put energy required to complete it, so you have saved time, money, energy and best of all you the solution what you wnat out of the crisis.
I know the its easier said than done but thats the way it should be. Watch for some exciting posts which are coming up.
Monday, March 26, 2007
How to use youself for managing crisis?
How to keep youself motivated even in crisis? If you ask anyone who don't have any crisis at that moment will tell you best solution, even though they also know its easier said than done. Thats human nature, try to console one infront of them so that they feel good about doing some thing good ( but this may not be always true).
So then whom to ask for the answer?
Thats write best person to give solution your crisis is self Yes thats you the person matters the most. If you have doubt I would request you to try your self and then belive. Don't get me wrong here, every person has his or her own prefernces over others. So intentionally or unintentionally everyone of us have our own favorite - passtime, stress busters, games, musics, work (need not be what we do from 9 to 5) etc.
Do you think I am getting delinked from the main topic? No I am not. Give me some time to explain, just think of crisis (asume the one you had or you don't want that to happen) then just see what all options you had as solution for that crisis. If you have correctly analysed then sequence would be like -
- you thought of one solution but not immpressive
- Solution some one suggested but looks impressive
You gone ahead with others solution and mid way changed over to you own way of solving it (mostly after you thought you were confident enough to tackle the problem). Then you comeleted it. Am I correct? most problably yes.
Now dissect the above written process, you had lack of confidence yourself so opted for others solution but once you are in that solving groove you took your own way. That shows every one loves there own way of solution to all problems depending upon there level of ubderstanding the problem and ability to tackle it. Most of the time in crisis your favorite things comes handy (that why I mentioned abovefew of the favorites anyone have). They help you to keep you calm and relaxed enough to cope-up with crisis and solving the problem in shortest time possible.
So get your self ready for "crisis management simple formula" in next post, good luck bye.
So then whom to ask for the answer?
Thats write best person to give solution your crisis is self Yes thats you the person matters the most. If you have doubt I would request you to try your self and then belive. Don't get me wrong here, every person has his or her own prefernces over others. So intentionally or unintentionally everyone of us have our own favorite - passtime, stress busters, games, musics, work (need not be what we do from 9 to 5) etc.
Do you think I am getting delinked from the main topic? No I am not. Give me some time to explain, just think of crisis (asume the one you had or you don't want that to happen) then just see what all options you had as solution for that crisis. If you have correctly analysed then sequence would be like -
- you thought of one solution but not immpressive
- Solution some one suggested but looks impressive
You gone ahead with others solution and mid way changed over to you own way of solving it (mostly after you thought you were confident enough to tackle the problem). Then you comeleted it. Am I correct? most problably yes.
Now dissect the above written process, you had lack of confidence yourself so opted for others solution but once you are in that solving groove you took your own way. That shows every one loves there own way of solution to all problems depending upon there level of ubderstanding the problem and ability to tackle it. Most of the time in crisis your favorite things comes handy (that why I mentioned abovefew of the favorites anyone have). They help you to keep you calm and relaxed enough to cope-up with crisis and solving the problem in shortest time possible.
So get your self ready for "crisis management simple formula" in next post, good luck bye.
Friday, March 23, 2007
Cushion effect of Money
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What a non sense topic! What is this use less tipic is all about - this may be your thought process at this moment, but this has happened to me so many times but the TRUTH never dies it comes back. It is a fact that money is an essential factor in life. Its main purpose for me is mainly cushion to so many events of life.
We will see few examples why I used the word "Cushion effect of Money".
If you understand the word cushion its nothing but type of padding to minimize the damage or trauma to part or article above it. So that means cushion is mainly there for prevention of damage. So think this way about life and money then you will understand why I call it as "Cushion effect of Money".
See in life you have an ambition, which can be achieved by spending time or money or both. If you have money it can act as an cushion of your "Time spent" or any loss that oocurs due to focusing on the ambition. So this cushion effect of money prevent you from agony and other problems you may undergo if you don't have money.
So money provides you cushion effect in - completing your dreams into fatcs, achiving goals more easly and fastly. If I continue the Cusion effect series then there is no end, SO try to understand "Cushion effect of Money" in your life and earn more for more cushion. Good Luck, some back for more interesting and time worth experience that I share.
What a non sense topic! What is this use less tipic is all about - this may be your thought process at this moment, but this has happened to me so many times but the TRUTH never dies it comes back. It is a fact that money is an essential factor in life. Its main purpose for me is mainly cushion to so many events of life.
We will see few examples why I used the word "Cushion effect of Money".
If you understand the word cushion its nothing but type of padding to minimize the damage or trauma to part or article above it. So that means cushion is mainly there for prevention of damage. So think this way about life and money then you will understand why I call it as "Cushion effect of Money".
See in life you have an ambition, which can be achieved by spending time or money or both. If you have money it can act as an cushion of your "Time spent" or any loss that oocurs due to focusing on the ambition. So this cushion effect of money prevent you from agony and other problems you may undergo if you don't have money.
So money provides you cushion effect in - completing your dreams into fatcs, achiving goals more easly and fastly. If I continue the Cusion effect series then there is no end, SO try to understand "Cushion effect of Money" in your life and earn more for more cushion. Good Luck, some back for more interesting and time worth experience that I share.
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Is money an essential part of life?
You may be thinking, what a nonsense question is there any doubt about money and its use? But I used this question because so many of us think that it is required but not everything, and fail to accept that money is an essential aspect of life.
I also know that its not everything but it amounts to many things rather than something, which I think we all should accept otherwise some circumstance will make you to accept it. Why I am telling accept it, because it changes your mind set towards money and make money an daily requirement and inspires you to earn more for what ever you have.
After thinking and telling all these we would be better if coutious about money taking over our mind. What nonsense money taking over mind??.......... Yes money taking over mind is a factor which we all should be cautious about, reason is when you are on high of money making you should not forget the "humanity" so that in future you should not feel guilty for what you have done.
I would like write about some thing called "Cushion effect of Money" which I will try to cover in my next post. Thanks for reading
I also know that its not everything but it amounts to many things rather than something, which I think we all should accept otherwise some circumstance will make you to accept it. Why I am telling accept it, because it changes your mind set towards money and make money an daily requirement and inspires you to earn more for what ever you have.
After thinking and telling all these we would be better if coutious about money taking over our mind. What nonsense money taking over mind??.......... Yes money taking over mind is a factor which we all should be cautious about, reason is when you are on high of money making you should not forget the "humanity" so that in future you should not feel guilty for what you have done.
I would like write about some thing called "Cushion effect of Money" which I will try to cover in my next post. Thanks for reading
Monday, March 19, 2007
How I learnt what is right and what is wrong?
I learnt very hard way what is correct and what is worng it took me more than six months but I don't think that I stopped learning. I am of a firm beliver that when you think you have learnt every thing then thats "THE END" of your story. So if you want to be alive continue learning so that you will live that life you want.
First when I started every thing was looking same to me some opportunities to earn money were better than the other in sales letter. You know I was not even knowing what is NEWS LETTER or what is optin email etc etc. But that slowly changed over time when I started leraning one by one.
I should be thank full to one of the news letter which led me to some thing known as "pips" site through which I was introduced to an excellent marketing forum known as www.warriorforum.com which changed the way I used to think about many factors of money making online. Then I started slowly to change my mind set for the "MONEY FACTOR" which I learnt late how it changes your way of thinking about life.
I don't want to waste too much of anyones time some this was how I started to learn and continuing to do the same. Every one should remember that leraning is a continuos process don't stop it. Good Luck, you can expect more experience from my life in coming posts.
First when I started every thing was looking same to me some opportunities to earn money were better than the other in sales letter. You know I was not even knowing what is NEWS LETTER or what is optin email etc etc. But that slowly changed over time when I started leraning one by one.
I should be thank full to one of the news letter which led me to some thing known as "pips" site through which I was introduced to an excellent marketing forum known as www.warriorforum.com which changed the way I used to think about many factors of money making online. Then I started slowly to change my mind set for the "MONEY FACTOR" which I learnt late how it changes your way of thinking about life.
I don't want to waste too much of anyones time some this was how I started to learn and continuing to do the same. Every one should remember that leraning is a continuos process don't stop it. Good Luck, you can expect more experience from my life in coming posts.
Sunday, March 18, 2007
My First Failure on Net
Yes I should agree to my first failure on net because without accepting my first failure I may not be comfortable in speaking truth about my self especially when some one don't know me personally. So I accept my first failure on this wonderfull net.
I became an victim of chain letter and lost Rs 100 (equivalent to approx $2.5) but I never regret for the same because that my own decision to test. That means in other words I was ready for the test and I was mentally prepared for the loss. That time I remembered one of the beauty full saying "failure is step to success".
If you don't belive that then its your view that I honor, but thats the fact. Today I can see any ad or sales page on net and decide what suits me and what not. So that what I say "step to success".
So I will continue my online journey story in coming posts till then see you , bye
I became an victim of chain letter and lost Rs 100 (equivalent to approx $2.5) but I never regret for the same because that my own decision to test. That means in other words I was ready for the test and I was mentally prepared for the loss. That time I remembered one of the beauty full saying "failure is step to success".
If you don't belive that then its your view that I honor, but thats the fact. Today I can see any ad or sales page on net and decide what suits me and what not. So that what I say "step to success".
So I will continue my online journey story in coming posts till then see you , bye
Saturday, March 17, 2007
I started in june 2004
I started my Journey on Internet from june 2004 onwards. I don't remeber the day I started. I was thrilled by the fact that my duaghter who born on 15th may 2004 was doing well after an initial period of respiratory distress after birth.
But there was a change in life or thinking process was waiting!!
I was surprised by that thought, because till that day I was thinking of only moral factors of life and nourished them. They kept me going in my life's roughest patches but there was something which was lacking that is what I call "cushion effect of money". I will cover this aspect when I feel its right time to touch it.
So my daughter's birth made the change
I decided to go ahead in an ethical manner for earning money more faster than what I am. So what to do? Very big question to a person who was not knowing how to email properly till 2003 (surprised!!!!, don't be there still people who have this problem). I was told internet is the most powerfull information provider ever created by mankind which is still in its infancy.
But surprisingly, initial phase of the research for money making by me was totally confusing and full of doubts, but manythings where belivable and others were not. but I decided to play it safe with in my limits.
I trial I lost!!!!
I will wirte more on my first loss in next post see you till then
But there was a change in life or thinking process was waiting!!
I was surprised by that thought, because till that day I was thinking of only moral factors of life and nourished them. They kept me going in my life's roughest patches but there was something which was lacking that is what I call "cushion effect of money". I will cover this aspect when I feel its right time to touch it.
So my daughter's birth made the change
I decided to go ahead in an ethical manner for earning money more faster than what I am. So what to do? Very big question to a person who was not knowing how to email properly till 2003 (surprised!!!!, don't be there still people who have this problem). I was told internet is the most powerfull information provider ever created by mankind which is still in its infancy.
But surprisingly, initial phase of the research for money making by me was totally confusing and full of doubts, but manythings where belivable and others were not. but I decided to play it safe with in my limits.
I trial I lost!!!!
I will wirte more on my first loss in next post see you till then
Friday, March 16, 2007
I told Ten Blogs but
I told Ten Blogs but I thought I will clarify before it creates confusion. I had more than ten blogs on blogger but now i have only one and planning to continue with only one so that I will be more focused and more productive.
I need to express what I am going to blog here
I blog, my childhood to present day activities in a piece and piece method, whichare independent by themselves so that person reading the post which is he or she is interested need not go to read the entire blog.
"God will help those who help themselves" thats what wise man told to an other wise man.
But I belive GOD helps everyone but only people who put efforts will see results.
Good Luck
Sreenivasa Iyengar
I need to express what I am going to blog here
I blog, my childhood to present day activities in a piece and piece method, whichare independent by themselves so that person reading the post which is he or she is interested need not go to read the entire blog.
"God will help those who help themselves" thats what wise man told to an other wise man.
But I belive GOD helps everyone but only people who put efforts will see results.
Good Luck
Sreenivasa Iyengar
I had more than Ten blogs but now only one
Hi
I am starting this blog after deleting all my old blogs because I felt rather than maintaining tens and hundreds of blog with less value its better to maintain the blog which has value for me as well as to others.
In coming days i am going to spill out my experience success and failures atleast one by one, so that the people who are in need will be benefited.
I had some good intentions and some bad one initially but now the good ones have taken over the bad so I am happy that I am with positive energy to make a differnece to others and the lovely world.
Thanks for reading
Sreenivasa Iyengar
I am starting this blog after deleting all my old blogs because I felt rather than maintaining tens and hundreds of blog with less value its better to maintain the blog which has value for me as well as to others.
In coming days i am going to spill out my experience success and failures atleast one by one, so that the people who are in need will be benefited.
I had some good intentions and some bad one initially but now the good ones have taken over the bad so I am happy that I am with positive energy to make a differnece to others and the lovely world.
Thanks for reading
Sreenivasa Iyengar
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